Update,
I got it working!!
It was way easier then i thought it would be.
Followed the instruction post on the fog wiki
[url]http://fogproject.org/wiki/index.php?title=Building_a_Custom_Kernel[/url]
At the end of step 5 when you pick what you want installed, I just did a ctrl+f (or edit find) and searched for vmware, and checked “VMware PVSCSI driver support”. then saved it then went on to setup 6 in the instructions