I was able to remote in and find out what was going sideways with the OP’s system. I’ll fill out the details in a bit, but there is the keys.

mods-enabled/php5.conf set handler

9.4

sites-enabled/001-fog.config

It appears to be an issue with at least debian 9.4 at the moment where php-fpm wasn’t being enabled causing the sluggish UI and high apache usage.