@Wayne-Workman
I too thought that was weird.
The firewall that i am using (Fortinet Fortigate 60D, has a number of preset options. one is 150 (tftp server). I did some digging and apperantly 150 is a cisco only option meant for phones.
I have manually entered option 66. but in a odd quirk of the firewall, manual options can only be in hex. I have set option 66 to the hex for the server name and IP. Neither works.
I do have physical server i can test on. I was hoping to avoid it because snapshots allow for much faster iteration in testing. But it looks like i might need to bite the bullet.